The imbalance in the couple: codependency from the theory of interdependence

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Pablo Tonathiu Salcedo Callado
Sofía Rivera Aragón
Alejandra del Carmen Domínguez Espinosa
Rolando Díaz Loving

Abstract

Codependency is traditionally studied as a personality trait. However, there are suggestions about its possible explanation from more social models. Using the interdependence model, its prediction is proposed through conflict management and power styles. For this, a study was carried out in which 571 adults participated (M = 20.20 years, SD = 1.93), who answered scales of conflict management, power styles and codependency. Evidence was found in favor of the interdependence model, since the management of noncollaborative conflict in the couple, as well as accommodation and avoidance in the codependent, together with negative power styles, are predictors of codependency. The applicability of the interdependence theory as a model to explain codependency is discussed, as well as the benefits for understanding the initiation and maintenance of codependent patterns.

Keywords:
Emotional dependence Romantic relationships Power styles Conflict management

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Author Biographies

Pablo Tonathiu Salcedo Callado, Universidad Nacional Autónoma de México

PhD. Psicología

Sofía Rivera Aragón, Universidad Nacional Autónoma de México

PhD. Psicología

Alejandra del Carmen Domínguez Espinosa, Universidad Iberoamericana, México

PhD. Psicología Social

Rolando Díaz Loving, Universidad de Texas en Austin, E.U.A; Universidad Nacional Autónoma de México

Posdoctorado Psicología

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